PS.Sorry not to give you a blow by blow rebuttle. Too busy! Plus, I have a ripped shoulder that is not very nice (no, not done by a girl! - it is an old Sport injury).
I will say one thing. I have experienced real pain. Pain so bad you want to die. This was nothing like a shared Slave/Mistress thingie. This was raw agony. And I mean absolute agony. No, nothing you could catch and I am better now anyway.
And I guess maybe that is why I am so insistant on the difference between fantasy and reality.
Fantasies can be for ever.
Reality is for ever.
Feel free to disagree! I am always interested in other people's insights.
In the mean time, what the fikk am I going to do about my shoulder? Yes. I have re-un-dislocated it. Still hurts.
Cheerio,
DK